I am Tom. Yes, I am a girl/woman who believes in “The One” and indeed I’ve had my share of Summers. Let me tell you my love story / un-love story.
My first summer was at twelve. I was young and cute. It was a series of firsts: the first date, the first bouquet of roses, the first love letter, the first lover’s quarrel, the first holding hands, and of the course the first heartache. I was young and foolish. It was my first time to experience boys attracted to me, boys fighting over me, and boys going crazy over me. but among all those I chose to be with the wrong boy. I thought I was smart enough, that I wont get hurt, that I can just go with the flow. But I was wrong, I’m just a Girl and he’s a Boy. I got hurt big time.

I sweared off summer for years till my second summer came at nineteen. But I never thought he was going to be a summer. I’ve known him for years, though we were never close enough, until i woke up one day and i saw autumn in him. He was nice, smart, funny and charming. He took care of me and showered me with all the affection he can give. Every moment together is special and Each day I find more reasons to be with him. I thought he was my autumn, but then I wasnt his autumn. and so he became another summer – the summer i’ve cried the most, the summer i broke down, the summer i’ve lost myself. But that summer made me rebuild myself again and realize that the world doesnt revolve on summers & autumns.

But it wasnt easy, especially when a third summer came at 22. It was a whirlwind summer, the summer i didnt expect to happen, and when it did, i wanted him to be my autumn, i never wanted it to end. But it did end because it didnt start right. And so the cycle repeats: endless crying, sleepless nights, drama moments and all the self-pity. I started questioning the essence of happiness, my happiness in fact. I was drowning myself in misery until there wasnt enough misery to drown myself. but in that drowning, I came face to face with happiness: family, friends, and colleagues who accepts me for who I am and for what I’m not. Happiness is a choice and it comes from within you. Moreover, Happiness is shared with people you love and who loves you and it doesnt equate to finding The One or being found by The One.

Those 3 summers: painful, harsh, hearbreaking but also life-changing. I couldnt say that I regret all those summers, as crappy as they may be, they made me happy and of course a woman strong in character.
As of now, autumn hasnt come yet but I am happy and contented. I have to admit that I’m hoping for an autumn but I’m not rushing. I know I will meet my Autumn sooner or later. In God’s Will…

500 Days of Summer is a great Rom-Com film. I strongly recommed the film. It makes you look back at your love and heartache stories with a smile, a tear, and a great understanding for love and life.

From Clickthecity: Director Webb further notes that “In making this movie, my first feature film, it is the happy ending that I didn’t have with Summer. It’s a whiff of the uncynical kid. Because under the humor and the whimsy of “500 Days of Summer,” there’s a fundamental truth at play: yes, love can be cruel, harsh and difficult but it’s by far, the best thing life has to offer.”